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What is the Teen Retreat? The teen retreat is a safe, non-threatening, supportive overnight
weekend gathering of teenagers who are grieving the death of
someone significant. It starts on Friday at 5:30 p.m. and ends
on Sunday around 3:30 p.m.
What will happen at the Retreat? The retreat offers a time for you to relax and meet other teens
who share a common experience, to explore issues, concerns, and
feelings about the death, and to discover more healthy ways for
coping during the grieving process. You will determine your own
level of participation in activities and discussion.
Friday evening, as well as some of Saturday, there is time for
you to go hiking, listen to music, or simply hang out. Items
such as Jenga, Trivial Pursuit, Scattergories, etc., are available
for your use if desired. You may bring music that you enjoy.
Are we going to sit in a circle, stare at each other and be
expected to talk about our feelings? Absolutely not! Only you determine the way that you explore
your grief. If you are willing to come but are scared of sharing
any of your grief, that’s OK. Just being there and hearing the
other kids’ stories is often helpful. If you would like to participate
in the activities but would like to do so privately, that’s OK
too.
Will everyone else know each other? Most of the teens coming to the retreat will not know anyone
else. They will be meeting and making new friends just like you.
Most of the teens are nervous or scared about spending a weekend
with others whom they do not know. 99 % of the time they say
they are happy they went. They report that just being with the
others helps them to feel less alone and more normal.
What are the activities that we may do while we are meeting
in a group? Some of the activities include claywork, creative writing, music,
storytelling, stain glass, creation of stepping stones, drawing,
temporary tattoos, charades, journalling, candle making, and
graffiti walls.
How many teenagers will be there? Each retreat can hold up to 10 teens ranging from 13 to 18 years
of age. There are 3-4 adults at each retreat.
How will I know if I’ll fit in? The teens that attend have usually experienced the death of
a parent, sister or brother, friend or grandparent. The cause
of the person’s death varies. Some have died from a long illness,
some from a short, sudden illness, some from accidents, HIV/AIDS,
suicide or murder. Some teens have had more than one significant
person die.
Where is the retreat held? The retreat is held at a quiet, peaceful place not far from
St. Louis. Free transportation is provided.
What does it cost to participate? There is no cost to attend the retreat. Any family who can make
a donation is encouraged to do so. All donations are gratefully
accepted.
How are the teen retreats paid for? Annie’s Hope is mostly supported through individual donations.
Any family who feels they are able to make a financial contribution
may do so. All contributions are gratefully accepted.
What will I need to participate? You will need clothes, a sleeping bag or blanket, a pillow,
and hygiene supplies. If you do not have something you need,
it will be provided for you at no cost. All meals & snacks
are provided.
Is smoking allowed at the retreat? Cigarettes, drugs, and alcohol are strictly prohibited. Also,
no music that connotes violence, explicit sex or vulgar language
is allowed.
If I can’t participate in a retreat, is there another way to
meet grieving teens? Yes. You may join the support group that meets every week for
eight weeks, you may attend the social events and Hope & Healing
Gatherings, and you may connect with others through the use of
letter writing, e-mail or telephone conversations. Any and all
of these services are offered to you.
How do I enroll in the retreat? Call the office of Annie’s Hope and an enrollment form will
be sent to you. The phone number is 314-965-5015.
For further information please contact
us.
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