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8 Week Family Support
Groups
The Support Groups for children, teens, and the adults in their
lives, meet once a week for eight weeks & last for one and
a half hours. We hope you will join the other kids and their
families who are grieving the death of someone significant.
No two sets of group sessions are identical. Each set is custom
made to fit the struggles at hand in a way that works best for
the families involved. Following is an example of an agenda.
The activities listed are some of those most used. Some are more
fitting for teens while others are best used with younger children.
During family centered nights, activities will be planned and
completed together, as a family.
WEEK 1: GETTING ACQUAINTED
WEEK 2: CHANGE
WEEK 3: GRIEF RITUALS
WEEK 4: FEELINGS
WEEK 5: CARING CIRCLE
WEEK 6: PRESERVATION OF MEMORIES
WEEK 7: LEGACY
WEEK 8: SEE YOU LATER
Alternate foci include grief process, hope, friends, school,
fears, guilt, anger, “afterlife”, holidays, nightmares, wishes,
parenting, communication skills, “leftovers”.
Activities or tools that may be used
include, but are
not limited to:
- Candle Making
- Name Game
- Talking Stick
- Who Am I?” Game
- Message Bottles
- Trust Circle
- Sculpture Building
- M & M Game
- Magic Wand
- Storytelling
- Poetry
- Weaving
- Wheel of Hope game
- Butterflies ‘n’ Caterpillars Puppet Show
- Collage
- Quilt Block
- Drawings
- Newspapercontent
- Personal Tribute (eulogy
- Role Playing
- Write Obituary
- Body Movement
- Planting
- Feeling Faces
- Sunshine Pillow
- Feeling Masks
- Feeling Bag
- Relaxation
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- Dream Catcher
- Claywork
- Graffiti Wall
- Music
- Feelings Bingo
- Worry Dolls
- Memory Pillow
- The Caring Tree
- Squeeze Game
- Comfort Pillow
- Healing Stone Exchange
- “Love Lives Forever” Scrapbook* Miniatures
- Simon Sez” or Hot Hurt Game
- Memory Stage
- Memory Stones
- Balloon "Release"
- Emotion Stations
- Treasure Box
- “I will remember you” Collage
- “See You Later” Party
- Show & Tell
- Temporary Tattoo
- "Shoe Box" Clay Work (Diorama)
- Mobile
- Magic Carpet Ride
- Group Letter or Card to Parents or
- Support People
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If we will not be able to attend all the sessions, can we still
join?
To get the most benefit, consistent attendance is crucial. Missing
persons are another loss experience for the remaining members.
A sense of safety through trust and comfort is extremely vital
for movement through the grieving process.
Is an adult required to attend with the children and teens?
We strongly encourage involvement of at least one parent/guardian.
If an adult is not comfortable attending the sessions, he/she
should still remain in the building.
What happens if I feel uncomfortable with certain topics or
activities? All members will experience anxiety, fear or nervousness at
one point or another. Members determine their own degree of involvement.
The more you put into the process, the more you will receive
in return. Some areas of discussion will trigger a more emotional,
sensitive reaction. This is normal and part of the journey. The
group will support you in the way that seems to work best for
you.
What are “family centered” nights? Children and teens are a part of a family group. To improve
open communication, consistency, and appreciation, it is most
beneficial to support the entire family. On family nights, the
entire group joins together, and while staying in the same room,
divides, not by age, but by family. The focus most often identified
for these nights are feelings, coping strategies, and memories.
What do we need to bring? Nothing except a desire to heal.
Will there be food available? A dinner meal of pizza and drink will be served each week at
no charge. The meal will be available from 6:00 to 6:25 P.M.
only. Drink will be available for adults throughout the session.
Donations to cover the meal expenses are accepted.
What does it cost to attend the support group sessions? There is no cost to attend the support group sessions. The programs
are mostly paid for through donations by individuals. Any family
who can make a financial contribution is encouraged to do so.
All contributions are gratefully accepted.
For further information please contact
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